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Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Never-ending Goodbyes

The prospect of going back to work at ABS does not seem so depressing, when I think about spending time with my friends who also work there. However, a lot of my friends are no longer there. Gigi is now working in Australia, Anne is in New York, Daphne is with QTV, Patrick is with Channel 5. Then, another one of my good friends from the network, James Ong, is leaving to work for the lifestyle section of a website in Singapore.


Luckily, I did get to spend some time with him before he left. We had dinner a couple of times, then on the night before he left, I got to attend his despedida. He and his friends were at Chili's and he invited me to join them for a couple of drinks. After Chili's closed, we moved to Butterfly, which is a small gay bar off Morato. We danced (to 80's music!) and drank until three in the morning. I had a lot of fun, and I will really miss James when he goes.

Friday, July 20, 2007

Finally DIVING again!

One thing I’d been sort of dreading to do since I got back home is go diving, which is strange because it's something I’ve always enjoyed doing. I was dreading it, first, because I had not done it in two years and so needed to adjust to being in the water again; and second, diving has a lot of emotional connotations for me. Diving had always been my special thing with Caye. After all, I did meet him during my first ever open water dive. Caye had always been my dive buddy, and except for the time he lived in Bacolod, he was usually around to look out for me underwater. I used to tell some friends that I often felt closest to him when we went diving.


So, my friend and climbing partner Angel told me that her brother Jan, a dive instructor, is now working for Oceana, a resort in Puerto Galera. She said he was inviting us to try the place and also resume our diving career. After some major coordination, we finalized plans for the trip. The cast of characters- Angel, Mars, and their baby Tykey, Anjou and Anton, Jan and his new (at least new to me) girlfriend Jules, and me. I felt like the seventh wheel, unless I could consider Tykey my date.

Jan, Jules, Anjou, Anton and I left for Galera on a Friday afternoon. Apparently there was a storm of some sort, so the boat trip from Batangas pier to Galera was pretty rough (there were ten-foot waves). We finally got there in the evening, and we tried to call it an early night (after a few Margaritas) so we could dive early.

The next morning, Angel, Mars, and Tykey arrived, and after a huge breakfast, we all set out to dive (except for the baby, of course. Tykey's only one year old). After another rocky boat ride, we arrived at the dive site. As the group started to descend into the water, I panicked because my mask started to flood. I went back up to the surface to try to fix the problem, but because the waves were so strong, I just couldn't calm myself down. Also, I started to have doubts about my equipment because I did not have it serviced before the dive. To top that all off I started to get pissed off at Caye because I was thinking that he should've returned my dive gear when I asked for it back in February and not just when he sensed that I was back in the country (but that's another looong story).

Anyway, with all those things happening while I was being thrown about by the waves, I told Jan to proceed with the dive without me. But, being the good dive master that he is, he told me to go down with them to fifteen feet first, then if I still felt uneasy, I could just come back up. I agreed, and sure enough, being in the water calmed me down. I continued and finished the dive without mishap, and I felt comfortable in the water again.

I went on four more dives after that, and I really had a lot of fun in and out of the water during that entire weekend. The resort was nice, diving in Galera was great, and I enjoyed all the eating that I did. Being near the sea, and spending time with my friends doing things I love doing, were all reminders of what I like about being in the Philippines. Diving does hold a lot of memories for me, but it's time to move on and make new ones.

Tuesday, July 3, 2007

Finally Driving Again

During my whole stay in the US, I didn't drive; not ONCE. I just walked everywhere, or hitched rides from friends. I didn't really feel deprived. Columbia is a small town where a lot of the happening places are within walking distance from my apartment. I did feel weird having to ask people for rides, but since that didn't happen too often, it was all good.

When I got back to Manila, I didn't get my car back from Yeng, as I have mentioned. At first I thought it was just so I would be spared the expense of both the car payments and the gas. I've just been taking the MRT and cabs, or my friends would gamely pick me up and bring me home.

Today, I had a meeting near the station, and I decided to drive a grand total of 3.4 kilometers (just over two miles) both ways, so I could start getting to used to driving on the streets of Manila again. I borrowed my brother John's car for my little adventure. On the very brief drive home, I realized that I have been avoiding getting back my car not just because it would cost more, or because I would have to deal with crazy drivers on the street again.

I have been reluctant to drive because doing so would mean that I have really returned to my life in Manila, where I drive myself everywhere, where traffic lights are mere suggestions, and where chaos rules the road. And if I can accept that, I guess I'll have to really accept that I am indeed home, and everything else this fact entails.